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ABOUT ESTHER MARIE (Cottle)
At 31 years old I wrote a book called "Single Shouldn't Suck" & on the day of my book launch, Valentines day 2022, I met my NOW HUSBAND🤯🥰 Mr.Cottle swooped me away to Hawaii & gave me his last name (not all on the same day, but you get the picture).
When I first started sharing my story, I was president of the "Single For Life" club & bachelor 'till the rapture. But I learned to devote my desire to the Lord & He gave me principles to live by that I now get to share with you. I've been at this for 3 years & been helping Christian singles learn to partner with God, have adventure in singleness, & discernment in dating.
With a background in theological studies (Life Christian University & Southeastern University) my message offers biblical truth paired with brow-raising stories to guide you along your journey of self-discovery.
Over the years, my brand has grown into a hub for singles searching for significance & guidance in their season. Since I was single for 31 years & confident I'd be a virgin until my last dying breath 🤣, I get the cringe factor when the non-single folk attempt to give well meaning advice that unfortunately doesn't translate into relatable & applicable wisdom for modern day dating.
I also lived through the purity culture movement & still somehow came out unscathed 🤔 There were a lot of well-meaning people whose message on singleness, sex, & dating, well quite honestly sucked. So I decided to write a book to fill in the gaps for what I saw missing. At the time, I was 23 years old (10 years ago 🤯), but I was determined to change the narrative for singles around the world & inspire a life of adventure along the journey.
I live in sunny San Diego with my husband & husky where you can catch us surfing on the weekends or hustling the local coffee shops for the best Mocha in town.
ENDORESMENTS FOR ESTHER MARIE:
“Single Shouldn’t Suck is an invitation into an adventure of bold bravery that encourages singles to break free from the constraints of societal pressures and write your own wild and wonderful story.”
- Lisa Bevere, NYT Bestselling Author & Speaker
"Every season matters and the season of singleness often gets overlooked as a stepping stone towards marriage. In her brave and hilarious narration, Esther Marie shares from her personal story how God has transformed her outlook on finding love and learning to embrace the life right in front of her. If you're feeling lost or alone in your singleness this book is for you!"
- Dominic Russo, Founder of Missions.Me & Speaker
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