I help christian singles date God's way without making it weird.
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Single Shouldn't Suck
Book
Fall in love with YOU.
Uncover limiting beliefs that are hindering love
Demystify the myths of 'Purity Culture'
Awaken to adventure
Reconcile your beliefs about 'the one'
Learn to love the life in front of you
$22.99 $16.99
Positioned for Pursuit Mini-Course
Experience Godly Pursuit
Learn how to break free from passivity
Discover what part of the pursuit journey you're in
Find out if you're ready to be pursued or in a healing season
Learn how to position yourself for a godly relationship
$59.99 $29.99
365 Singles Adventure
Digital Guide
365 wild & fun adventures
6 diverse categories to explore: Outdoor, World Changing, Self-Discovery, Travel, Health & Wellness, Spiritual Growth
Find community in places of common interest
Experience fulfilling moments
$19.99 $9.99
If He Wanted To He Would Book
*coming soon
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Take a peek at the chapters:
The ‘Situationship’
He’s like, totally into me
He’s praying about dating me
He just doesn’t like “titles”
He’s waiting for the right time
He doesn’t want to rush it
He just doesn’t want to get hurt again
He doesn’t want to ruin our friendship
If He Wanted to He Would Course
Break toxic love patterns.
Identify insecurities keeping you bound to your situationship
End emotional/physical toxic love patterns
Wake up from the fantasy of your hopeless romantic dreams
Learn how to re-wire your attraction
Find confidence to break off your situationship
Learn what Godly pursuit looks like
$997.99 $397.99
Breakup with Heartbreak e-book
*Coming soon
Heal the right way.
Grow through your pain
Heal from past hurt
Discover actionable steps to take to start over again
Break the broken record of sad songs in your head
Find freedom from haunting thoughts of past relationships
Get over your Ex so you can move on
There's nothing more attractive
than a man/woman working to become who God created them to be.
Feel excited about your future
Find new ways to grow in community
Break toxic love cycles
Resolve pain of not feeling pursued
Find confidence to date with healthy intentions
Heal from misbeliefs taught by purity culture
Date with discernment
Put God at the center of your love life
At 31 years old I wrote a book called "Single Shouldn't Suck" & on the day of my book launch, Valentines day 2022, I met my NOW HUSBAND🤯🥰 Mr.Cottle swooped me away to Hawaii & gave me his last name (not all on the same day, but you get the picture).
With a background in theological studies (Life Christian University & Southeastern University) my message offers biblical truth paired with brow-raising stories to guide you along your journey of self-discovery.
Over the years, my brand has grown into a hub for singles searching for significance & guidance in their season. Since I was single for 31 years & confident I'd be a virgin until my last dying breath 🤣, I get the cringe factor when the non-single folk attempt to give well meaning advice that unfortunately doesn't translate into relatable & applicable wisdom for modern day dating.
I also lived through the purity culture movement & still somehow came out unscathed 🤔 There were a lot of well-meaning people whose message on singleness, sex, & dating, well quite honestly sucked. So I decided to write a book to fill in the gaps for what I saw missing. At the time, I was 23 years old (10 years ago 🤯), but I was determined to change the narrative for singles around the world & inspire a life of adventure along the journey.
I live in sunny San Diego with my husband & husky where you can catch us surfing on the weekends or hustling the local coffee shops for the best Mocha in town.
"Every season matters and the season of singleness often gets overlooked as a stepping stone towards marriage. In her brave and hilarious narration, Esther Marie shares from her personal story how God has transformed her outlook on finding love and learning to embrace the life right in front of her. If you're feeling lost or alone in your singleness this book is for you!"
- Dominic Russo, Founder of Missions.Me & Speaker
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