Hey guess what?! I'm married now 🥺 I know, totally crazy! When I started my brand 3 years ago I was president of the "Single For Life" club & bachelor 'till the rapture. And then, one fateful Valentines day in 2022, I met Mr. Cody Cottle who swooped me away to Hawaii & gave me his last name (not all on the same day, but you get the picture.)

Over the years my brand has grown into a hub for singles searching for significance & guidance in their season. Since I was single for 31 years & confident I'd be a virgin until my last dying breath 🤣, I kinda get the whole cringe factor when the non-single folk attempt to give well meaning advice that unfortunately doesn't translate over into relatable & applicable wisdom for modern day dating.

I also lived through the purity culture movement & still somehow came out unscathed 🤔 There were a lot of well-meaning people whose message on singleness, sex, and dating, well quite honestly sucked. So I decided to write a book to fill in the gaps for what I saw missing. At the time, I was 23 years old (10 years ago 🤯) but I was determined to change the narrative for singles around the world & inspire a life of adventure along the journey-- the life I truly believe God created us to live (not as a consolation prize in replace of marriage, but a fulfilling season all of it's own)!

I live in sunny San Diego with my husband & husky where you can catch us surfing on the weekends or hustling the local coffee shops for the best Mocha in town.